5 Fundamentals to Help Others Achieve Success
by Kurt Theriault
It’s All About Them!
Managers often express how much they enjoy coaching because it provides the opportunity to help others become successful. Yet various surveys, used to analyze the growing turnover trend, indicate that insufficient management support is a leading reason employees leave a job. The best way to address this is to get managers focused on two key ideas: always provide value to each employee during every interaction, and make sure it is provided from the employee’s perspective. This is only possible when a manager coaches from a mindset of making every interaction “all about them.”
Here are the 5 fundamental drivers for being “all about them.”
1. Convey through action one’s commitment to helping others.
Never miss an opportunity to help an individual improve. Seizing every opportunity to point out things that are being done well and encouraging continuity is essential. Likewise, it is vital to immediately address situations that need improvement. Discuss why something is not happening and quickly problem solve together to drive needed change. Be laser-beam focused on improvement, knowing that if progress isn’t made, an individual loses.
2. Know and leverage each individual’s passions and motivations.
Take advantage of the fundamental truth that individuals do things for their own reasons. Help each person know how job tasks and requirements contribute to achieving the things most valued to them. Start by discovering what each individual wants most from the job. Doing this is easy – simply ask and talk about it, individual by individual.
3. Be versatile with different communication styles.
Communication synergy is vital to effective teaching. Reducing communication tension is also a managing must. This makes it possible to have productive listening, comprehension, practice, and execution. Be willing and ready to adjust to the styles of others in order to establish a productive communication setting. If an individual prefers a faster pace, speed up the communication. If an individual requires more information before action, provide it. Whatever individual adjustments are needed to improve learning, adapt the communication style to provide them.
4. Have the courage and perseverance to do what must be done.
People are motivated by different things, learn different ways, and respond differently to various tactics. It takes incredible fortitude and multiple approaches to break through resistance. Challenge individuals to change and to rise to the next level of performance. Often this is neither fun nor easy. Just take on the issue. Great coaches know it’s more painful to be responsible for someone’s failure than to tackle the issues and tactics that may have a chance to help. Keep coming at it over and over again. Focus on the outcome and celebrate every achievement milestone. Do not accept giving up. Tolerate trying, use problem solving as a tool, make practice the means, and joyously celebrate execution.
5. Measure success by how individuals view the value provided.
There are only two ways coaches know they add value. One is by noticing performance improvement and success. The other is through direct feedback regarding received value. Measurement must be independent of how a coach feels about the value provided. The best way to measure effective coaching is to directly ask if value has been provided. Always check to make sure the right things are happening for each individual. Covet direct feedback and quickly adjust to guarantee improvement.
Evidence is strong. Individuals leave jobs because managers fail to meet expectations. Effective leaders exceed employee expectations. They focus leadership on being about others rather than themselves. As we get better at making sure our actions deliver value, we in turn receive the reward – those we coach succeed and stay. What could be better?
Kurt Theriault is Senior Partner and Chief Marketing Officer of Business Efficacy, a consultancy founded 16 years ago to help companies turn strategies and goals into measurable results. Kurt has spent the past 13 years in sales, sales management, professional development, marketing and consulting. He is responsible for business and product development and helping spread the word about Business Efficacy’s belief in the importance of sales management’s role in driving sales execution. Visit Business Efficacy’s website.












